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I just realized I'm likely never going to come first to anybody. My friends are all going to fall in love and start their lives with their respective partners, and between a friend or your romantic partner who'd come first? I know what it feels like to think you're second or even third priority- I'm a middle child. Being aro, I won't get a significant other of my own who'll put me first. My friends and family love me, of that I have no doubt, but I have the feeling that their boyfriends/girlfriends will become the most important person in their lives. I'm not saying that's wrong and I'll never try to make anybody feel bad about it. Don't get me wrong, I'm not unreasonable or convinced I deserve to be Number One. I don't know-it just struck me that I'm likely going to come first only to myself.
Feel this so much
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