I feel like I meet people especially online and o try to be friends and then they suddenly have feelings for me and never let go and sometimes they come back and “reveal” their feelings again after I already rejected them and then they stop talking to me, why can’t I just remain friends with anyone and still talk everyday and have engaging conversations????? Why must I become their partner?

Worst part is I feel like my gf wouldn’t want me as just a friend either, it’s either romantic love or nothing (I’m aroflux for context… so I do still date, i just feel differently)

It’s so frustrating and it makes me feel like I don’t matter, like people don’t just like me they always have to love me or never talk to me :/