Im a cis gay male Took 2 quizzes out if curiosity after reading a genderqueer graphic novel from an asexual author, and both got results that made me curious. One said I could be on the spectrum and another called me frayromantic. So throwing this out here to see if I do belong or not, just to understand myself better

I have had 2 relationships in the past, both ended badly (though one we became best friends) but I feel like I can have multiple crushes on people and even feel comfortable wit open relationships

I get a crush on literally hundreds of guys I see I do like small gestures of someone in my past relationships teaching out and caring for me but I felt I was really bad at making the most of the relationship The actual mechanics on how to maintain a relationships is confusing to me, I get the gestures and the support, I can flirt especially online but having the actual work in maintaining feels like a for a very long time and I always fall for the wrong guys
Been single too long and been pretty muc function fine I jsut need my friends to help me I have thought if the idea of marriage (no kids) but I just feel like that is impossible for me

I have a sex drive so not asexual, and I can certainly separate sex from love though I also rush through how to make a relationships cause I dont know what's too fast or not

Relationships can also feel suffocating for me if I can be with that person too long hence why I feel open seems good option for me

Chances are I'm not but just curious