I saw this coming from a mile away and knew it was just a matter of time before she noticed and started talking with a specialist about it. But my mom is now sick and I'm trying to transfer from NG to AD and it won't stop me (sorry but I gotta have a life). But once I'm in and it gets bad enough, who do I talk to? Have to figure out things like health insurance, home health care, managing her social security and other benefits (my sister can prolly do it) but I just wanna make sure I know exactly who I should be going to and consulting with to make the right decisions in the likely event that my brothers family and my sister don't want anything to do with it.