I usually go for fire sign men, but I thought I'd give air signs a chance and went out with a Gemini man for a coffee. I loved our conversations. We have a lot in common in terms of values, opinions, beliefs, and perceptions. I'd say we are on the same level intellectually. Even when we were just texting our conversations were always mentally stimulating. We didn't even go through the small talk phase. We didn't talk every day but when we do, we send multiple texts/paragraphs. I liked that set-up. We never ran out of things to talk about (especially him) when we went out. From sharing our opinions on certain issues to full-on existential crisis in the middle of the day. We pretty much covered everything. I usually just like to be a listener but this man got me talking and even going deeper. It was supposed to be a quick brunch and coffee just to "see if we vibe" but we ended up hanging out till night. It's so rare for me to come across someone who I share that much similarities. I remember even thinking that day that I might be missing out on air signs.

After the meet-up, our convos continued as usual. There was no switch up. No signs of him losing interest/ghosting anytime soon. There were even plans of meeting up again. We were still both enthusiastic when we were texting. He gave it another week before completely vanishing.

As an Aquarius stellium woman, this is such a humbling experience 🤣