Hi! I am 30 YO Born White Female/genderfluid/Depends on the day person, Alt Nerd, wow that was a mouth full, I go by any Pronouns. I posted before on other subreddits but quickly got overwhelmed by all the messages and busy with life so if I don’t respond quickly, apologies! I had no idea this subreddit existed, my longest relationship was with an AMWF dynamic and it was one,if not the best relationship I've had.

More things about me: I was born and raised in New England, I currently live in ME, But have lived in Washington state(1 Year), NYC (5 years MY FAVORITE PLACE) and England(6 Months) I am a Metal Head(Sleep Token,BMTH,DGD ect. I am an “Elder Emo”. I have some piercings and tattoos and need MOAR. I tend to go from Goth GF/BF to kawaii pastel to Adam Sandler, I’m short , blue eyes, and curves, I am a parent to a 2 YO I have signed up for some dating apps but BAD VIBES MAN, So much anxiety. I am a HUGE gamer, Gaming is VERY important to me(Music taste is important too but this is the biggest one as long as you are open!). I have a steam Library of over 700 games, am I going to stop buying them? No, Do I have a problem? Probably.

I love coffee and sweets But my belly does not I am a picky eater. I am bad at spelling and grammar as you can tell I am Neurospicy, I also have POTS so sometimes it hard for me to do some activities I am DemiSexual, I am Basically a cat give me all the affection then don’t touch me. I would say My personality is very bubbly but does not fit my look. I have no Volume control, it goes from quiet to loud very quickly, I am a Homebody and an Introvert but like going out as well. Coffee keeps me alive and banter is my love language. I work In healthcare. I am a work in progress but I have come far. I am not interested in FWB, Situationships, but I am open to most but not all relationship types (mono, poly, ect.)

What I am looking for: A deep connection that ultimately turns into a friendship and then a relationship, someone to talk to through out the day. Someone who doesnt mind Banter. Someone who wants to put in the effort, I dont mind LDR but I dont plan on leaving New England so if we are in it for the long haul, you would probably be the one moving unless you some how convince me but prefer the Northeast. Ive moved so much in my life i want to stay put haha! I have a hard time getting attached to people but once I do, I’m in it for the long haul. A gamer is important to me and someone who does not despise kids as I have one of my own, also not planning on Anymore but who knows. Honesty and Communication are VITAL. Bonus points if you are a gamer/Alt/Metal head and in new England. I am an open book, If I peak your interest tell me a little bit about yourself, what you look like (or add a picture if you are brave), and let me know. P.S I will ignore messages that are low effort.