40 year old Asian man, tall (6'1"), in shape (exercise regularly). Have a stable white collar job in STEM, am a musician on the side, enjoy reading, have a pet and houseplants that are all doing well, enjoys a nice time out for lunch or dinner, can hold my end of a conversation.

I live a generally happy and content life with good friends, job, and hobbies, but I am missing some regular physical intimacy.

To be blunt, I'm interested in finding someone also looking for a friend with benefits or situationship. Key here is friends; someone I can get to know over a period of time, but with both having the goal of some explicit things behind closed doors. I'm open for it to be a one-time thing, but prefer for it to be something more lasting and serious if things work out (it's definitely more fun with someone that you get to know well).

In terms of personal preferences, I'm pretty open and prefer exchanging photos earlier than later to see if it would work out (we all have our preferences). I do prefer kinder women that really know what they want, truly have the time and considerations to pursue this (i.e., understand how schedules work), and can actually hold a damn conversation. Prefer meeting sooner than later as extended text conversations typically fizzle out and I'm not looking for a pen pal.

Can host, and am flexible with scheduling. Strong preference for someone local.

Hope to hear back.