My BF (33M) got into a horrid wreck last week and they had to amputate above the left knee. We’ve all been so grateful he’s starting to wake up that none of us have processed what being an amputee will do mentally or physically for him.

I’m reaching out because I don’t know what else to do. I need advice on what to say, what I can do, and how I can best be supportive. What are some tips or ideas for me to be most helpful to him when he regains consciousness? Thank you in advance.

EDIT: Thank you everyone for your advice. Right now there’s been a stumbling block with cognitive abilities due to a brain injury so we are having to take things super slow. I’m glad I found this community though and I’ll suggest this when he’s able to understand what’s going on finally. I appreciate each one of you who suggested things for me and the family. Thank you. 🙏🏼