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so, one of my closest friends has a 5-year-old, and they’ve started bringing them to every single hangout. like, even when it’s just supposed to be a chill adult thing—dinner, movie nights, etc.—the kid is always there.
don’t get me wrong, their kid is cute and all, but it completely changes the vibe. i can’t relax the same way when i have to watch my language or deal with interruptions. i finally told my friend that some plans are better as adults-only, and now they’re acting like i’m being inconsiderate.
i get that being a parent is hard, but does that mean everyone has to accommodate their kid all the time? am i wrong for wanting to keep some plans kid-free?
It’s not wrong to want some kid-free hangouts, especially when the plans are meant to be adult-only. It’s completely fair to want to relax without having to worry about watching your language or dealing with interruptions. While parenting is hard, that doesn’t mean everyone has to accommodate a child all the time. Setting boundaries for adult-only events is reasonable, and your friend should respect that. It’s about maintaining the vibe of the gathering, not rejecting their kid.
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