So if you saw my previous post I talked about being unable to host my homeless friend due to many reasons and I told her last night that I can’t continue to help her. I don’t have the room, money, and it just isn’t a good solution whilst I’m pregnant.

Shit hit the fan. Her boyfriend won’t help her all of a sudden and she keeps saying she’s just going to end her life. I don’t know how to help her, she’s got until Monday to leave and she’s just constantly crying and I feel like I am so in the wrong for telling her she can’t stay.

My partner is 50/50 on caring, says he doesn’t mind if she stays but it would be easier next year when we were in a better financial position. She’s been travelling all week to the council to get help and they aren’t doing much, one of her friends offered to take her up to see a shelter and get two weeks of accommodation and tell me why she refused and said “I’m too tired.”

I honestly don’t know what to do with her anymore. Am I wrong for asking her to leave?

EDIT: I think she got the message because all of a sudden she’s texting me telling me she’s at a hostel getting help from there, which surprised me so I guess once she’s grabbed her clothes I won’t be seeing her for a while. Thank you for reminding me this situation isn’t sustainable and to take care of myself whilst I’m pregnant. I appreciate it.