I (40f) and my 3 boys 6/10/14 are on vacation with my parents and my brother (35) and his wife. We have 2 rooms. Me, my kids, and my parents are in in one room, and my brother and his wife (no kids) have their own room. Both rooms have 2 queen beds and a pull out couch. My parents are paying for everything on this vacation, as they do every year. I have been pissed this whole time because i dont think the rooming situation is fair. It wasnt even a question as to who would sleep where. My brother and his wife "like their privacy". My oldest wanted to sleep on the couch, but the bed woyldnt fit me, 10yo and 6yo comfortably. I told him the next night he could sleep on the couch in his uncle's room. My mother said "if uncle says its ok". Wtf?? Tonight at dinner i asked my brother if my oldest could sleep on the couch in his room and he said "ummmmm idk let me ask aunt". Wtf?? He isn't paying for his room. Why are we cramming 6 of us and all our luggage in one room, while the other room has an empty bed and couch?

Am i wrong for being pissed about this? Am i the one being selfish? I mean, i didnt pay for my room either. But this doesn't make any damn sense to me. And it is basically not up for discussion. Make it make sense??