In October my wife had a mental breakdown and decided she had fallen out of love with me and into love with a mutual friend of ours. She had recently be diagnosed with acute Schizo Affective Disorder. So it’s like she became a new person overnight. She left our house while I was asleep(Early hours of the 7th of December, one week before our five year anniversary), letting me know we were splitting up and getting divorced via email when I got up to find her gone. She claims she just fell out of love with me. And I’ll accept that. But for about five weeks after the event, she kept calling me and texting me. Each time asking me not to let her new guy know(I’m friends with him after all, lol), and I didn’t. Then the calls get more. One was close to three hours. I had to try and sort out two months worth of her medication from my end. As her brain will fry without it. Once again. I’m not to tell him we talked. So I wrote a big message to her. Saying I’m getting mixed signals. She doesn’t want to come back. Has fallen head over heels in love with this guy. But keeps me on the hook. Like, why? What’s she getting from this? And being dishonest with him this early in their relationship is bad news. So she has cut me off. The occasional text. No calls. And they are coming here next week to empty the house of her clothing. She left with virtually nothing in December. So it’s going to take them two days to pack it all up to go back to his place. But she’s cold now. Not just me. But with her brother and her Mother. They are calling me way more than they usually did as they see the difference in her. Was I wrong to ask her what she’s getting from contact with me? To confront her? She left me, after all. I’m the one that lost everything. Because now she’s acting like I betrayed her. Moaning that she thought I would “always have her back” and now “she can’t trust me”. Should I have just kept quiet and let the contact continue? So weird.