So I am in college with my friend and a movie recently came out that we have been waiting for to see so I buy us tickets for it, I was already struggling with money but I managed to get enough money to buy our tickets, a day after I bought the tickets and confirming the time and date of the movie he comes to me and tells me that he’s not going to the movie since he decided that instead of going to see the movie I paid for he is going to go to some random party instead, so I’m not happy about hearing this and I start asking why he’d do that and if he will pay me back for the ticket, he then gets mad that I even suggested that he pays for his ticket which now won’t be used, so am I the jerk?