1: Angling—Adjust Your Angle To Increase Pleasure Angling is a sexual technique that involves switching a woman’s body posture during sexual intercourse in a way that puts the clitoris in greater contact with the penis or a partner’s pelvis.

To take advantage of Angling, women can use pillows under her hips to help create a pelvic angle or move to positions that increase pleasurable contact. Multiple sexual positions take advantage of Angling.

2: Rocking—Sustained Clitoral Contact Rocking involves positions that allow for constant contact with a woman’s clitoris. Use a sex toy that rubs the clitoris during penetration or use this position; it keeps the base of her partner’s penis pressed against her clitoris. This sexual technique idea is to maintain consistent clitoral friction, which enhances stimulation.

Using penis-to-skin contact requires that the man rock his pelvis in a way that rubs the clitoris. This variation on the missionary position is also known as the coital alignment technique (CAT). CAT places the man on top, but instead of using a thrusting motion, he grinds, increasing the chance of female orgasm.

3: Shallowing—A Touch Where it Counts Shallowing might involve a partner using their penis tip, fingertip, tongue, or sex toy. There was no consistency regarding which of these touches women reported as most pleasurable. For some women, it was a finger; for others, the penis tip, etc. Still, there was consensus that pleasure was increased even if Shallowing was employed briefly.

The key to using Shallowing as a sexual technique is to touch just inside the vaginal canal and keep the touch shallow, not deep. About 84% of women reported using Shallowing. It’s a beautiful method for building anticipation, which gives the women a chance to warm up to the idea of sex versus thrusting right into well…thrusting.

4 Pairing—Combining Pleasures In my practice, I often hear women talk about the combination of g-spot stimulation and oral sex; this amalgam of sexual techniques is the very definition of Pairing.

Solo Pairing is explored when a woman stimulates her clitoris with her finger or a sex toy while also experiencing vaginal penetration.

Partner Pairing is when her partner reaches down to help with clitoral stimulation during penetration using a finger, sex toy, penis, or tongue, allowing the woman to experience sensation in two areas at once.