If I’m being honest I truly feel like Zane seems depressed, not trying to be fully rude but imagine feeling stuck in a relationship with someone like her. He hasn’t been able to explore any other options with women, he was forced into the new house and now getting married because… You’ve been together for so long Allisa said that she didn’t want to be just dating after their anniversary and gave him an ultimatum. So he didn’t really have a choice, I honestly think if it was up to him they would not be engaged yet. He just felt pressured by her and societal standards of “the next steps”. He doesn’t seem excited about anything with her, it’s like a forced excitement. He’d rather stay down in the basement in the dark or leave her to go play tennis. In the past vlogs they have talked about how she has a hard time admitting that she is wrong and you can tell that just gets to him. I think he is completely opposite of her but just doesn’t feel like picking a fight so he lets her run all over him. He doesn’t seem physically attracted to her and he doesn’t seem emotionally attracted to her at all. I could see him with someone a lot more mature and a lot nicer. I mean his mother is Geri, so he has to have a nice empathetic side, and I just know he can’t stand that Allisa has turned into the superficial brat. I think he just doesn’t come around because he’s depressed and feels stuck in their relationship which I can totally empathize with. She is constantly bringing up their future children and you can tell he just hast to seem excited about something so he goes along with that. I always jab at the fact that he doesn’t help with house renovations, but honestly now that I think of it I wouldn’t wanna be around her either especially when it doesn’t seem like she really takes his opinion into consideration anyways. He probably doesn’t love also how her parents just let her get away with anything and let her act bratty so he probably doesn’t even wanna be around when her dad comes over because it annoys him. Sometimes starting over after that long seems really scary but I wish she would just realize it’s going to be a lot better and healthier for him. He needs someone that is going to be willing to go play tennis with him and who actually supports his goals as well. She puts zero effort into anything he has an interest in. I know if she reads this to him they will both be laughing saying how untrue it is, but Zane I know in your head you can validate some of this. Just know that you’re not stuck in anything, you can make the decision to get out and you will find somebody even better if it for you and will treat you nicely and care about your goals and passions, not just about putting your “date nights” on a vlog for monetization. That’s not a real partnership, that’s an online persona. You deserve better.