Hey, so my husband(32) went to rehab after having a seizure from withdrawal on christmas eve. When he hit the 90 days sober mark, he started drinking beer once in a while, but the interval between drinks has started to decrease. I realized he was in trouble the moment he started drinking beer on his own. A month later we're on vacation and I can see the signs I don't like to see starting to come back, irregular sleeping patterns, moodiness, like he turns into a different person when he's tired and has had a few drinks. We went to bed pretty early last night and this morning, I found a bottle of wine with a deciliter of residue at the bottom and the bottle was full when we went to bed. So he apparently woke up in the middle of the night and drank that on his own. He says he's learned his lesson and won't drink vodka, but wine and beer. I don't know how to explain to him that it doesn't matter. I know where this is headed, are there any arguments that could work? Everything I say to him is turned against me. I don’t know what to do.