This may be long but I’m 21F, and i think for awhile now I’ve had a problem drinking too much. Not too often but once I start drinking I rarely stop especially if I’m going out to the clubs or bars. I guess I just want to know if anyone else has been in my position.

When I get drunk I do things I’m not proud of and portray myself as something I don’t want to be. It really makes me feel bad abt myself and I’ve tried to limit it and it’s gotten better but it’s not at all near what I want it to be. The idea of not drinking at all is not feasible for my life style tbh. I just want to learn how to control it, say no when I don’t need it. Has anyone been in this position before or have any tips that may help me?