i've read most stories here of ladies tending to hide it from their partners whenever they feel the urge to touch themselves. Either, nahihiya (which is I think the top reason) or they just wouldn't want to make their SO feel inadequate. (like why d'you have to do that, andito naman ako, am i not enough... kind of shit)

The fact that men in general get easily turned on af seeing their ladies play with themselves and usually (if not always) would end up in a good fucking sesh, but, i just realized, it's kind of the other way around for us...

I appreciate it when Hubbie LETS ME DO IT. (Hi u/PussyLickerXBJQueen) I just sooo love seeing his reaction when i touch myself in front of him - He LETS ME DO IT . He doesn't insist of using his fingers, though he's one hell of a fingerfuck(er) himself. he just LETS ME DO IT. He would even guide me through it -- while i play with myself, he sometimes would suck my nips -- kiss me -- or just simply hug me (awww 🥺) -- which what usually gets me off (shit sarap!). He would not insist of fucking straight away (unless I ask for it) .. HE LETS ME DO IT - until I reach it 😊💦

So far, i have my (2) best and satisfying masturbations ever.

First on the list would be this one night, when we're down to our .. I guess 4th or 5th round (and yes! we are some kind of multi-orgasmic freaks!), we finished it with us both doing ourselves, i got my favorite vibrator wand down there (which he gifted to me) and he's stroking himself , while we lock eyes until we climax together , fck! 💣💦 i can still imagine our crazy moans that night as we both run out of breath, shit!! sobrang intense!

Second would be, whenever I give him a head, I usually touch myself and I so know how hard he's trying to hold it. What a satisfying sight to see how he goes crazy seeing me cumming while i passionately suck him. Rawr! Just sooo fcking HOT (i am now soaking wet as I am writing this ..)

I guess what I am saying is - ladies, going all-out honest with the things you want ( and don't want) is not bad at all. And gentle guys, listen to what your woman wants! Pussies need a lot more than just fcking.

Kayo? Do you ladies feel comfortable doing it in front of your men? How do you rate your comfort level with 10 being the highest?

For men, how do you usually show your moral support when your ladies are up for a self-play game?

Happy Monday you guys!