Recently been having mind blowing sex lately and it started when I tried having sex with guys who do not brag about their skills in the bedroom.

For context, I’ve had guys tell me that they’ll fuck my brains out but during the actual fucking I had to touch myself in order to make myself cum (I love touching myself btw, I don’t see it as a chore. I did gave them plenty of time to make me cum, pero wala eh 😅). They would usually brag that the women weren’t able to handle their horniness, that they could fuck for a very long time, that I’ll have multiple Os before they come. Pero ayun, madalas sumasabog in 5mins.

Pigilan ko man huwag mag expect, pero one can’t help it eh. Around 1% had executed what they’ve promised. Didn’t regret the hook up kasi I can make myself come pero kalerkey ‘yun pag oversell.

On the other hand, I’ve had guys tell me that they’re inexperienced. That they just do their best to make the women feel good about themselves. That they enjoy the actual journey of pleasuring their partner and not just to relieve stress.

Take note. They think of sex as a journey and not just as an explosion of feel good hormones.

As in they fuck to make us, women, feel good in bed. With us feeling good, they will feel good. Kumbaga medyo secondary na lang yun pagexplode nila. I’ve actually had men who don’t mind not cumming at all. Para tuloy tuloy ang laban.

So ayun. Make sure you get to know each others’ preference in bed. The do’s and don’ts. Boundaries.

Also, know your own erogenous areas. Men aren’t mind readers. Tell them what you want and how you want it.

Taking time to know these things will pay-off naman, well, in my experience.

Hope everyone gets mindblowing sex!