Disclaimer: hindi ako expert pagdating dito. I'm just sharing my own experience and opinion. It may or may not work for you.

If you're planning to do it here on reddit, it'll take some time. Establish your account. Magpost ka din from time to time. Makipag interact ng maayos sa ibang posts. Pataas ka ng age and karma. It doesn't happen overnight.

Post meaning, wag basta basta. Lagyan ng effort. Pictures? Go. Basta aesthetic tignan. Sfw post sa ibang sub? Go. Lagyan ng substance yung post para maganda engagement. Wag maging toxic. If you have nothing nice to say, just keep it to yourself. You need to do better.

I too experienced rejection, multiple times before both online and irl. Pero unlike others, i moved on and learned. Wala eh, kung hindi nabiyayaan sa physical, bawiin sa ibang bagay(intellectual). Eventually, you'll get there.

Tho looks can be subjective, always think na pangit ka para hindi ka mahurt incase na mareject ka haha i downplay mo lang. Wag ka magfeeling at over confident.  Walang masama maging confident pero iakma sa sitwasyon. Tandaan, hindi lahat ng chinito and matangkad is pogi haha.

Laging expect the worse and hope for the best. Para hindi mo maoversell sarili mo incase na hindi mo mameet expectation nila. Sabayan mo wavelength nila para more chances of winning! Importante din ang first impression kaya ingatan. Remember, first impression lasts.

Hindi yan 3 miss strike. Madalas 1 hit strike lang. Isang mali lang is goodbye ka na. Move on lang and improve. Do not dwell on the past.

Pwede ka magstalk para makita mo pattern ng interaction niya. From there makaka adjust ka. Don't be a creep na literal na pati personal affairs niya inaalam mo. Ekis sakanila yon. 99% of the time blocked ka agad for sure.

Wag maging whiteknight, iwasan ang ad hominem attacks towards other guys para makaovertake sa iba. It's not manly, it's a childish move.

If you're eyeing a high end woman, then work on yourself too. Don't expect to be noticed by a woman kung ultimo sarili mo hindi mo maayos. Step up your game, pantayan mo level nila.

Gamitin muna ang ulo sa taas, wag muna pairalin ang libog. Kapag may connection na kayo and established na, then that's the time na pwede mo na gamitin ulo mo sa baba(pero ofcourse depende sa usapan niyo). Kapag naging successful ka, don't brag. Let them do the talking.

Good luck brothers 👌