When I was in my 20s, sex and dating were the furthest from my mind. I was career-driven and needed to earn money to survive.

Now in my 30s, I started dating and exploring. It’s been a wild ride (and hoping for more).

But let me tell you about this guy who I hung out with for a couple of weeks, and after he left for the US, he bought me my first toy.

It was made of high-quality silicone (which made it a bit more flesh-like) and very different from the toys given at bachelorette parties. I was always wary of toys because inserting an object that had batteries inside scared me. This toy was water-proof, only needed charging, and could be used in the shower. It had a clit sucker on one end, and a vibrating dildo on the other.

Also, it could be controlled with an app.

Since we lived in different timezones, I wanted to test it out for myself first. So one horny afternoon, I’d already charged the toy and was reading the app instructions. By moving my fingers across the screen, the vibration and movement of each end would intensify. You could adjust the vibration for either end as you wished.

Since I missed sitting on this guy’s face, I propped the toy on a firm pillow and placed myself over it. At first just a light vibration to get a feel of the mouth of the toy. It felt really good as the nub of the clit sucker massaged my insides. Soon, I was grinding against it, moaning as I groped my breasts. With a swipe of my finger, I turned it all the way up and ground my hips harder. It only took a couple of minutes for the toy to give me a satisfying climax. The toy was soaking wet when I got off it.

Immensely satisfied and relaxed, I decided to lie down on my back and insert the other end in me. Starting with a light vibration, I started pumping the toy inside me. I was quite wet so it went in easily as it vibrated.

I let it rub against my gspot as I continued pumping the toy in, my finger swiping up to make it vibrate harder. The pressure built so quickly as I came again.

Once I spoke to the guy who bought me the toy, I quickly taught him how to use it and we even used the app’s messaging and calling feature whenever we played. We had some really steamy (and wet) calls because of it.

I’ve tried a few other toys, but this one will always be my favorite.