I'm a 22 y/o male who's always played the role of a dom in bed despite being naturally submissive. Ever since, nahihiya akong iexplore yung mga kinks ko because of the societal expectations placed on gender roles. That being said, i don't give a fuck anymore, all I've ever wanted was to fully submit to a partner in bed and be her bitch.

This is why I'm asking for help on knowing where to look for a FemDom. Sinubukan kona maghanap sa r4r kaso sobrang rare maka hanap ng girl who's into that in my experience. Is the bdsm scene still super taboo sa bansa natin? I don't have body or age preferences in looking for a dom yet I'm still unsuccessful in finding one. And for the doms reading this, are there physical traits you look for in a sub?

I wouldn't say my fetishes are too extreme din. Mahilig ako sa foot worship and pet play in general which I think is pretty common naman in the world of femdom? I also like cbt and and anal play which I find a lot of people have the same kink sa mga threads.

I appreciate any suggestions on where I could find a dom. I've tried reddit and fetlife na to no avail. Thank you and happy holidays :)