Aside from foreplay and the sex itself, aftercare is something I really look forward to when doing the deed with someone. I saw a post from twitter about what proper aftercare is and I agree with it. This was the tweet:

you wanna know what proper aftercare looks like?

- getting her a towel and wiping her down

- getting her a glass of water

- praise her

- reassuring her that all the nasty things were strictly sexual

- treat any bruises

- cuddle with her and telling her she’s beautiful

I’ve met some guys who didn’t give good aftercares which made me feel sucky hahaha. Buuut there were also guys I’ve been with who were really good at it. One guy would stroke my hair, massage my scalp while I laid on his chest, and even kiss the marks he left on my body after a very intense impact play and rough sex. And there was also this one guy who gently bathe me, gave me a lot of kisses and cuddles, and made sure I eat and drink after he applied orgasm torture on me.

Of course I wasn’t the only one receiving an aftercare. It should always be give-and-take, right? I like running my fingertips on the person’s skin and just trace the the lines and curves on their body. I’d also give them praises—tell them how good they made me feel and ask if there’s anything I can do to make the experience more pleasurable for them too. Sometimes, I would also just grab their hand and play with it—compare my hand’s size to theirs, trace the lines on their palm, and even examine if there’s any scar (and if there’s any I would kiss it softly).

Foreplay is exciting and sex is exhilarating, but aftercare is the cherry on top (at least for me haha)