Before having sex, make her cum first always.

Tease her first. Get her really stimulated and built up. Go slowly, taking off her clothes and spending time on her body. Play and suck with her nipples. Get into it, make it nice and sloppy. Lick and suck her nipples and focus on that only, rubbing her ass at the same time.

When you do take her panties off, take your time. Tease her pussy lips first. Go back-and-forth between licking a little inside, and going near her clit. Build up very slowly with her clit, starting with little flicks of your tongue. Only occasionally……mostly lick around her lips in the beginning…..suck on her lips also. Variation is important. Change what you’re doing, see if you could notice by her reaction what is turning her on. If you’re doing it right, she will be very sloppy by now. Drive in face first. Look for her legs to quiver, and listen to the sounds that she makes. Adjust accordingly. Different women have different sensitivities, so start softly and build up playing with her clit with your tongue until she comes

If the first thing you can do is go down on her and eat her pussy out until she cums all over your lips, she will be putty in your hands from there. I have seen innocent, quiet girls who are very shy turn into whores if they have their pussy eaten properly.

Happy fucking y’all.