Ever since we started swinging, and openly exploring our sexual fantasies with other people, mas na-realize ko na hindi dapat nakakahiyang manghingi ng RECENT STD and HIV test results.

As malilibog, it’s also our responsibility to keep each play fun and worry-free. One night of lust should not turn into a lifetime of concern.

But just as important as securing safe sex is the support that we should be giving those who had reactive results. Discrimination is one of the reasons why others choose vengeance than accountability.

Transparency happens in spaces where we feel safe, so let’s try to build that! 💕

If you’re into this hookup culture, ‘wag na rin sana hintayin pa hingan ng test results! Initiate and normalize asking for these like how we casually ask each other about our asl and kinks.

Trust me, para rin sa atin ang pagkakaroon ng regular tests! The earlier we detect infections or diseases, the faster we can respond to them.

📍LoveYourself is my fave testing center. Then also SelfCare on FB delivers free test kits.

❣️HIV is not the only sexually transmitted infection out there. Get tested for different types of STDs and most importantly, wear condom!

🫶🏻 Yes we can get STDs from oral sex too so please magpa-test na lang tayo. Lalo na dahil I enjoy gxg with pussy licking and tribbing!

✨HPV vaccination is expensive and I hate it. But it could protect you too from low-risk and high-risk genotypes. Kindred offers 50% minsan sa vaccines nila.

WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU GET POSITIVE RESULTS:

🌸Inform your recent hookup partners (ka-momol, ka-sex, or any form of transmission) But wag manisi especially when it’s hard to backtrack where you really got it. Mahirap pero it’s your RESPONSIBILITY to be honest to them.

🌸Ask them to get tested because you care for them!

🌸Cry, get angry, go. But remember may mga taong kayang suportahan ka. No judgment.

🌸Seek the right medical treatment, and constantly get checked.