Hello! Doubling down lang on the post I've had yesterday (in a manner of speaking). I said it before, and I'll say it again - if you want nice things, don't be an asshole.

Adding to that, if you want nice things, then you must establish a feeling to the one you converse with that they can feel safe around you. Na you can vibe with them; make them feel comfortable around you.

Guys, let's not go around thinking that the ladies post photos of all their naked glory just to satisfy our carnal fantasies. Kaya naman yung iba, feeling entitled kasi akala pag na-entertain, pag-aari nyo na yung tao. Please.

Take things at face value about their post. Hindi porket nagpost sila ng nudes dito e we assume that it's an invitation for you to do as you please with them.

Also, take the time to converse with them! They're more than just pretty faces and sexy bodies. Get to know them without the expectation of it leading to you two in bed. This is just my two cents, but I think the more you focus on it leading to that, the more you actually stray away from that. Just vibe with the person. See where it goes.

P.S. Pwede din ba, kung may preferences tayo, at least let's be decent enough to people who don't meet our preferences at all? Yung iba kasi, grabe makapang-body shame, akala mo naman e kung sinong 10 dyan. If you don't have anything nice to say, then don't speak it na lang, no?