Hooking up with someone eh pwedeng dalawang bagay, 1.) pwedeng magtagal kayo sa set up ane enjoyed each others company until one of you or pareho kayong nasa relationship na and decided to stop . 2.) You both ended up badly dahil sa maraming bagay, pwedeng attachment issue, pwedeng yung isa is commited talaga and lied to you, or simply di lang kayo compatible.

Pero based sa experience ko and sa mga nababasa ko dito mismo madami akong narealize.

1. Hindi lahat ng kahook up mo is nagsasabi ng totoo sa ilang bagay about them: we cant blame them hook up nga eh temporary lang.

2. Di natin sila pwede pilitin na makasama ka over a personal ganap. Mapa family event pa yan, or tropa gala. Wag tayu assuming minsan matutu din tayo kumalma di ka masyadong importante kaya jan ka lang sa gilid

3. pag sinabi nilang di ka nila igoghost dont expect na gagawin nga nila yan, yung iba talking stage palang pero ang lakas na mang ghost to think alam nilang may bad experience ka don

4. Dont share too much information, be discreet as possible, lalo kung ons or fubu set up lang kayo hindi lahat ng mabait sa chat totoong mabait yung iba pang front lang to gain your trust.

5. WAG MAATTACH!!! please! love yourself. Its a hook up thing iiwan at iiwan ka din nya pg ngsawa n yan sayo

6. Pag tinang gihan ka na once sa meet up wag k na mg attempt sa second time, di lang nila masabi sayo ng rektahan na ayaw na nila sayo kaya lahat na ata ng rason masasabi sayo just to get rid of you. Dont be so insensitive. matuto ka makaramdam!

7. wag maniwala pag sinabi niyang nasa open relationship sya at may consent ng partner nila yung makikipg landian sayo. Investigate muna bago lumandi

8. Practice safety: Meet them at your convenience, kung maari meet half way, and let someone you trust kung nasan ka in case of emergency eh may nakaka alam san pupulutin katawan mo 😅

9. make sure to set boundaries, lay all your rules and make sure susundin lahat. dont bargain rules lalo pag safety nio nakasalalay.

10. lastly know when to stop. if you think na its too much to handle for you let it go. madami pa dyan.

aray talaga sa #3 at #6 🤣🙊