When she’s cheated on you before pero when you ask nicely to do the deed, you get declined?

I respect consent and have never insisted on doing it kapag ayaw niya talaga.

Ang hassle lang sa end ko, nagpakantot ka sa iba tapos sakin ayaw mo(minsan). It just feels so fucking unfair when I have never done you anything wrong to be cheated on in the first place.

Anyone who’s been cheated on getting the same treatment kahit di naman madalas? How do you deal with it? Minsan gusto ko na talaga tanungin kung gusto niya ba maghanap ako ng ibang kakamot nito para hindi ko na siya kailangang kulitin pa when it comes to this need.

For context: Siya lang nag-iisang body count ko. Had a number of chances to get laid before I even met her pero I used to believe na sex should only be done with someone you love.