Before anything else, opinions laid out in this post are not based on a study but only on statistics based on one's encounters via online and irl dating/hooking up.

I was a freshman when I got slapped by the realities of being a humang because my parents sent me to a liberal institution. Probably something I can thank them for.

That was also the time I started to discover and establish my actual persona, discovered music, read actual books, sipped alcohol, look for things that make me feel alive

...sucked a dick, orgasmed, and the first scare over a creampie (with bcs!) lol

Being a rookie and a noob in anything is a discomfort for me cause I hate knowing nothing. I had to do a thorough research before the first dick pierced my hole, and it was not just to physically prepare but to learn how to fuck and suck.

Porn looked mathematical to me. I had to master the science before the art. Of course, I didn't reveal that and acted like the innocent lady when I was getting done. Thank the Japanese for teaching me how to be submissive. I studied porn to fulfill the teenage wet dreams. I still do.

Then I started seeing this young lawyer (who debunked that chinese guys can't have a 7-inch tool) and he was the first sexual partner who openly discussed how he studies to be better in bed. Was my first exploratory fuck, and could've been my first ass play (now thinking about it, I wish he did) but his dick was scary for my hole. Nevertheless, made me squirt the first time (and so on).

He was refined and cultured in bed. It can get sloppy and messy but it was fucking divine.

After him, I could no longer go vanilla. The next fubu was the most explorative. These neat fine men with the sloppiest and most disturbing kinks.

Talking to guys in the modern dating stage, my experiences tell me that a man's sexual arsenal comes with or a part of his depth and culture.

There will be men who will only use your pussy like a fleshlight until they cum (you don't even have to be there lol)

and there are those who won't let you go until your soul leaves your body.