Moderators
Subreddit Rules
You *MUST* follow the r4r formatting when creating a post.
The format is:
[Age] [X4Y] [Area] [Title that isnt just brain dead "want sex" equivalent]
Read the sticky for all the details - your age, location, and what type of redditor you are seeking out must be somewhere in your post or it will be deleted. If 3 or more posts get removed a temporary ban will be given.
This community is for 18+ ONLY
Most activity here will be on an adult level. That doesn't mean everybody needs to be looking for something non-platonic, but that does mean we'd all like to avoid any sort of legal troubles...
NO CONTACT/IDENTIFYING INFO IN PUBLIC
If just anybody can come around and harass you via phone or easily discover your real-life identity, that's bad. So please do not, under any circumstances, put snapchat names, kik names, or anything else like this anywhere in your posts or comments.
Share all of this via PM.
No Spamming
No spamming, as in, no posting/commenting for commercial purposes (see Rule 5 above), but also no spamming, as in, no dominating the sub with your posts.
Only one post every 72 hours
And if your post is too similar to one you have already made recently it may be removed.
Nobody likes to see 5 reposts on the frontpage. We need variety and fairness here.
This also includes Onlyfans spam accounts and the like.
Be Respectful
Just don't be an asshole. Plain and simple. This subreddit is meant to be open and accepting of people of all minds and kinds.
Don't be malicious or hostile towards anybody. Don't be rude, condescending, racist or sexist. If you don't agree with the content of somebody's post or comment, either respectfully engage them or just move along.
This also includes replying to a post to try and "convince" someone. IE a person posting F4F and you say "how about a guy instead" or similar.
No harassment of any kind
If you're not going to engage somebody on their level, if you don't meet their expectations or requirements, just leave them alone. No doxing, stalking, catfishing, threatening, racism, scamming, or anything else that could constitute harassment.
This includes making comments in their post about "I wish you were looking for a man" or "If you change your mind and want a man HMU" or any variation of that.
NO SOLICITATION
This is not a place to buy, sell, or trade, nor is it a place to advertise or generate web traffic. In other words, no spam and no scams. Operate in the spirit of the sub or go elsewhere. This includes Onlyfans. There will be little to no tolerance when it comes to this.
Mods have final discretion to remove any posts
Sometimes things need to be removed and they don't quite cover what is covered in the rules. As such, the moderation team has final say on what is or isn't allowed even if it does not fit the letter of the rules.
Tag NSFW posts as such
If your posts contains any NSFW imagery, it needs to be marked "NSFW." So you'd need to flair your content as "NSFW" after creating it, or you'd simply have to add "NSFW" in the content line somewhere.
No illegal activity
This subreddit is kink friendly, and as such BDSM, D/s, CNC, and other "borderline" topics are allowed, but anything that clearly lies outside the law is not allowed and will lead to a permanent ban.
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