Ok — time for another insightful confession from a mid 40s, professional, soccer mom…

All of those times I crawl in bed before you, in just a tshirt and undies … rolling away… facing the opposite wall, my hips jetting back just enough to not be a natural sleeping position… that is a invitation, but a passive one.

Yes, I’ll say it again, that’s a signal for MOST women… but a signal for patience and teasing… not for jumping the gun.

It’s a signal to you that says “you have a small window to tease me into play…”.

In my mind as your parent — I know I’m fucking you… but I’m going to make you work for it. I’m not letting you know, I’m the one who wants sex…I know you WANT to be the partner who arouses me, who curls my toes and makes me drip. You need that reassurance, bc men need to “own” their women, so, I’m going give you enough rope to hang yourself… but hopefully enough to get us both off first ;)

SECRET: I will not speak for all women, but I LOVE the sensation of an erection being pressed into my bank as we spoon. I love feeling your lines and veins pressing into me. I crave the sensation of knowing you want me, you want inside me, you want to pin me down and ravage me, at 1:45am on a Wednesday… I love it… and you better fucking act on it.

As your partner - your gf / your spouse - your sexual satisfaction is my responsibility and a priority. If I’m not making you a priority, if I’m not making your needs and instincts a priority, if I’m not appreciative of everything you do for the family / me, I know someone will … and I’m not having that…

I may be the other woman to someone(s), but I will not allow another one in my marriage… unless I taste her first :) I must approve.

When you roll over and press into me… grinding your hips half asleep… just pull those panties aside and have me… don’t make it quick, just make it good :)

SECRET: Graze your finger tips lightly over my skin, curves, booty, panty line… just a light caress — back and forth. When you start to feel goose bumps, gently kiss the neck… you win ;)

Just some thoughts, am the only one ladies?