I tend to think that most of the users on Reddit have unfair expectations about who they will meet. Sure, there are people out here with perfect bodies...or are there? Those with so called perfect bodies are probable trying to get people to go to their OnlyFans page to pay to play. I don't think that's what reddit is about. Some may get their fetish rubbed that way. But, I think the majority of us want to find someone "real" to have a relationship with. As for us...my friend and I have been looking for a while now for a couple of things. A bifem unicorn (yes I really hate that word but that's the definition) that we can call our own. Or a couple that is normal and nice looking and open minded sexually and otherwise. Huntsville is a big city and it has a lot of area surrounding it. So, I am curious that we have not found anyone yet but people who do not know how to read (yes I am talking to all of you guys out there that for some reason think you fit the bill) and people who love to talk but when it comes right down to it think that they can find someone out of a porn movie. She and I are NOT perfect in any way. She is 30, I (the male) am 60. We are also normal people, we are nice, we are open, we are friendly, we are different, and we have our own standards...as I am sure you do also. One of our standards is not to look for the fantasy...but someone as real as we are. But, I understand also, that we all have to be attracted to one another. And we want someone that we can be ongoing friends with also. SOOOOOOO...with all of that being said....write if you would like to talk or discuss or get to know us. I hope you do. Thank you for taking the time to read this.