Hello there Reddit world. My wife and I are searching for a play partner that can be a steady. We have received hundreds of messages, but it seems most ment don't know how to talk to a women. We're looking for someone who's willing to spend a little time texting or calling to get familiar with her. She wants a man to get to know her a little before we begin to play. We're all here for the same reason obviously; but if you can't text a girl for a week in order to get the opportunity to play, than please don't text. She is not looking for conversation all day every day, but she would like 30 minutes to an hour of your time each day (@ minimum) to make that connection where she becomes comfortable. You will not get naked pictures from her unless she is comfortable with you. Past that we want someone interested in playing more than one time. We've played with a few guys at this point, and have had some great times; but she wants someone she can develop a bond with so we can have amazing sex, and get to explore some kinks and fantasies of ours that would require a connection. We'd like to move to a boyfriend like phase (polyamory). She'd like to try some solo play, and go on a date once or twice a month, as well as all of us meet up once or twice a month for (MFM) kinda scenarios. So if your someone who's into one night stands, please don't message us because that's not what we're interested in at this point. So if your into something like this, and are tired of constantly searching for women and couples, write us a message. On the flip side, we have no problems with you playing outside of our dynamic, we are married and understand that all of us have needs.