I’m not the most experienced little but I have had a few caregivers that ended well and some not so great, maybe even a bit traumatizing. Throughout my experiences and reading about others over the years, I’ve come to realize how hard it is for caregivers, daddies, mommies etc. It’s unfair to expect so much of someone especially if you aren’t willing to provide similar catering. Littles are precious and sweet but (speaking on myself mostly ) can certainly be overwhelming handfuls. Remember to care for your caregiver too, when you’re big not only so they can provide top notch little care but because you love them and if you believe they are a good CG then, they deserve that from their special little one.