Hi everyone!! My name is Emma and I'm a 21 yr old trans woman :3

So my partner and I have been dating for about 8-9 months now and one of the first things we bonded over was us both actually being littles (which I didn't know about when we started dating). It was a lovely surprise and when he's feeling like it he's an amazing cg/person to just be with when I'm little, but sometimes I feel like a burden.

It's not often I slip into little space bc I typically need someone there to help me feel comfortable and safe enough to let go, but when I do there's often times he isn't in the mood which I completely understand and accept. I don't want to force him to be something he doesn't want to be in the moment and was wondering if any of you had advice on how to deal with that feeling internally?

When I'm starting to slip and there's no one around I get a gut wrenching feeling of loneliness and typically my only solution is to pull myself out of it, but I tend to shutdown and disassociate if I do. I know you guys aren't therapists and I will certainly bring this up to my own when I see him this week but I was hoping you guys had advice on a better way to stay somewhat little and not feel quite so lonely?

• Emma <3