I posted a while ago on a subreddit where little and caregivers supposedly could find each other, and it seemed super great at first! But I realized quickly a lot of caregivers that wanted to message me were looking for naughty stuff.

I was never opposed to possibly having a caregiver that doubled as a boy/girlfriend or partner, but it made me realize like....a TON of people use age regression and little/big dynamics as a way to do naughty stuff. I don't have a problem with folks that do it, but it made me really sad...

I engage in activities when I'm not in little or middle space that are pretty naughty, sure, but when I'm little the whole point is that I want to be--well, small. Taken care of, having fun in an innocent and safe way. The experience left a yucky taste in my mouth!

I hope other Littles in the sub know they don't have to mix what they like with caregivers who only want to do naughty stuff when we're little. It's totally okay and cool to just want a platonic/non-naughty dynamic, and it's not 'weird' or being a 'prude'.