Hello all! Frankie speaking, I have done a lot of thinking on the answers that so many of you lovely folks gave to my previous post asking for advice on the overwhelming needs of my little alters, and I’ve taken stock of what needs I’m capable of meeting on my own, what needs are unrealistic, as well as how to meet as many of those needs as I can. And I landed on the idea of a Caregiver Exchange!

The short n’ fast is that I—Frankie—am very capable of doing all the adulting stuff that the rest of my system hates, but I can only really front if there is a threat of some kind. But, if I am asked for specifically-esp in the case of someone needing me-I can be called on pretty readily (😎 it’s Beetlejuice rules lol). So I would like to develop a routine with someone where I act as their caregiver and they do the same for my littles.

The littles are roughly 5 and 2~ and I am looking for someone to help me stick to a schedule (even just calling upon Me and having me do a sticker chart for your little I think would be enough to prompt my little to follow it), to provide a safe space to vent, and to do joyful things with. Ideally our littles would also get along too; I have some ideas on how to make this flow smoothly.

If you are interested and over the age of 20, please apply. Our collective is 21. And the link to the application I created is below.

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe5sKpd6Jf48B2zfDpDfqzXrw3EczHAQ2M_kDJWo2NGjmz6BA/viewform?usp=sf_link

Frankly, -Frankie :)