First off, happy hunting to everyone here.  I’m sure it’s not anyone’s first choice to resort to the internet for unmet needs.  But let’s dive in…

I am married and looking for the same.  I am gainfully employed and can work long hours.  I’m sure you’re interested in the title, and yes, I’ve been told I resemble the Cap by more than one person (Steve Rogers of course).  It may not be a dead-ringer, but I keep an active lifestyle and am in decent shape.  I like to think I’m pretty easy on the eyes.   The bedroom has been a bit lackluster as of late.  My wife does not have the drive she used to before our child.  I feel I still have a lot to explore and would love to share that sense of adventure with an interested partner.   I love to cater to fantasies.  Anything that makes my partner happy, I am down to try it.  With a few exceptions: No pain/humiliation/scat/pegging/bloodplay/breathplay (and I’m sure there are probably more).  Outside of the wildly unconventional, I am a huge proponent of exploring kinks, fantasies, foreplay and other desires.  I have many of my own and would love to share them with you if we strike up a good conversation.

Boundaries are a big deal to me. I’ve always told my partner that I’m not having a good time unless she’s having a good time. It is paramount that the levels of respect are reciprocated. Especially in terms of navigating our current home lives. You don’t owe me an explanation for your home life and nor do I. I am looking for something respectful. R-E-S-P-E-C-T: Find out what it means to me.   Though my job can be demanding, I am looking to meet up with an eligible AP once or twice a month. While I am excited about exploring the kinkier roots of a connection, I am also excited for that initial spark. I miss being in a new relationship when you get excited about each text message. However, I am not on here to change your/my situation and nor should you be if you’re interested in this post. Our first meetup should include drinks, a few laughs and a chance to see if we would be a good fit.  The second time we meet might be in a more intimate setting.   I’d like to exchange SFW pics rather early on in the conversation.  We can work our way to the spicier stuff if it feels natural.   Me: -6’1/190lb -Decent looks -Married (not looking to change) -Busy schedule but available for texting and occasional meetups -Discreet (AP OPSEC) -Central Ohio   You: -Married (not looking to change) -Local to Central Ohio or willing to meet halfway -Discreet (AP OPSEC) -Able to text semi-regularly (Not a stage 5 clinger but not a ghost) -Able to meet once or twice a month -Similar db story -Between the ages of 21 and 45 (willing to adjust if the chemistry is right)

Also, not interested in talking about politics. I don’t have a problem which way you swing, I just don’t want that to be a pivotal factor for our endeavors.