So I'm brand new to Arizona, moved here from the Midwest. I am hoping to find a good new friend who I can have some fun with. Let's do the coffee thing, get lunch, chat and text but ultimately get naked and have some fun. I know it's a weird thing to be actual "Friends" with Benefits but that's what I am hoping I am able to find off here.

If you are reading this and you're not local but want a new friend to just text and shoot the shit with we can do that too. You can never have too many chat buddies right? Guess we can't have tacos together is all...

Here is my "but" moment. I am in a relationship, I know that that is not for everyone once you see that. We have an open relationship with each other and she even knows we have one. I know a lot of dudes say they are but it's only in their own minds.....I'm lucky enough because we both know that the whole monogamy thing isn't natural. Think about your favorite food or shirt/dress or pair of shoes. You can't eat that or wear it every single day, you have to mix it up every now and then, it doesn't mean you don't love that as much. So we understand that this is something that works for us and we want each other to be happy. (I WAAAYYY over explained that).

About me...I think I'm pretty normal. I work (found a job here) at something I'm good at. I don't do drugs, I don't smoke, have my own stuff, car and place to live. I'm taking advantage of the sun too, been working on my tan. I should have been hitting the gym...I do have a few pounds I need to lose. But my damn love for food....speaking of food I do cook and enjoy doing it.

You, please have the time to do something like this. Whether we just become chat buddies that live in another state or we are closer and see what type of chemistry we have together. Obviously, you have a life, kids, family, work, etc...we both do. PLEASE have good hygiene, that's so important to me. And if we click here let's exchange a couple pictures, see if we have chemistry together and go from there.