Partner (allo) and I were on Discord voice chat, and the topic went in a sexual direction. We began exchanging furry images and other sexual posts with each other (as we normally do), and he mentioned being aroused. I teased him about it for some time, and later into the conversation, I start hearing deep breathing. Part of me wondered if he was getting off to the pictures, but when I asked if he was alright, he said "he was fine". It was only after the fact I realized he was masturbating.

I don't have a problem with him masturbating (we've sent more personal pics, and he's gotten off to those as well). It feels abit weird to be the subject of such, but I'm pretty sure that's more to do with low self esteem than being aego.

He knows that I don't find PEOPLE sexually attractive, and that my masturbation involves fictional scenarios and people. He also knows that I'm sex-indifferent leaning towards favorable (which I hope reassures him, because he's not... big in the lower department, and it seems to cause him a tad bit of insecurity).

All that to say - does anyone else experience that with their partner? Indifference when they masturbate to you? It doesn't bother me, but I couldn't find any similar posts here.