So sexual attraction is wanting to have sex with that certain individual right?

Because I feel like aegosexual fits me but I keep thinking to myself if there was a label like that but with experiencing attraction more. But I'm like I don't want to have sex with them they're just appealing?? Does this make any sense. Like even the people that I find super appealing, I only am comfortable imagining myself with them when my libido is high. And most of the time when I think about actually having sex with them irl I'm like "ew no."

Also I remembered a couple of years ago my dad was talking about how music is just all about sex because this guy flashed his abs for a part of the song. And I was confused like "it's just abs?" but then it kind of dawned on me that seeing his abs is attractive and may cause people to want to have sex with him. And people get excited about other suggestive dances moves, because they're suggestive. Like I think they're hot but it doesn't make me think about sex directly??

And just a few days ago I realized being sexy is having sex appeal. And I was like "nooo.. Like I want to look fire but don't want to have sex appeal. I barely like sex."

I'm definitely going to be doing some more introspection and see how I feel as I get older but this shit is confusing

Rn I'm thinking about using the labels ARCflux and aegosexual. Definitely ARCflux because most of the time that's how I feel. But I'm unsure if I experience sexual attraction so I'm still debating with aego