I have no interest in physical sex, the idea even makes me uncomfortable, however i enjoy virtual sex/sexting/calls due to the level of separation from myself it provides. I refuse to disclose this information outside of online spaces and to people i know irl due to the absolute dread i feel knowing people would think of me as a sexual being. I make sex jokes irl and online all the time and it doesn't bother me. I freely talk about the sex lives of my friends with them and do not have any problems. I own many sexual objects and also refuse to acknowledge they exist when talking to anyone irl. My best friend is also my friend with benefits, and i have considered the idea of having physical sex with him and it is not as uncomfortable as i expected, more anxious than turned off. however with one of my other friends with benefits, i am completely disinterested in pursuing anything physical and enjoy staying digital with him. I wonder if i am actually demisexual even though i personally feel i fit the label of aegosexual very well. Is it possible to be both demi and aego? Im still only going to refer to myself as asexual for the sake of ease.

Note: i love my best friend dearly but do not find him sexually attractive simply because i do not find anyone sexually attractive, same goes for my other fwb which is why i have always stayed firm in the asexual label and umbrella