Problem/Goal: i told my pregnant friend that her partner was cheating on her so she lost the baby. I didn't know what to do. LONG POST AHEAD.

Hi! just wanna get this off my chest. I felt really bad about what happened and i don't know what to do so i decided to post here. So, I have a pregnant friend and I found out na her partner was cheating on her. (FYI: he was cheating with a minor. 16 YEARS OLD. ) Yung partner nya is close friend ng current partner ko ngayon. Me and my partner knew na he's been cheating on my friend but my partner told me not to tell my friend kasi nga baka maapektuhan ang bata. When I found out, I got so mad and I was so disappointed. At the same time, I feel so sorry sa friend ko kasi nga she didn't deserve it at all. Tapos lagi pa nagshashare yung friend ko na feel nya daw hindi sya love ng partner nya tas parang hindi na daw sya sure. Basta their relationship was already kinda confusing. Also,  I was cheated on before so i felt really bad for her kasi ayoko na unaware sya na nagchicheat na yung partner nya sakanya but i chose to be silent kahit nakokonsensya ako everyday coz as a friend, i have to help her get out of the situation. i don't wanna let her stay with a man na uncertain and unloyal sakanya. I have to save her but I chose to keep quiet.

 2 months went by, i found out na natigilan na pala ng partner nya yung pagchicheat with a minor kasi baka nagbabago na sya but still, i knew my friend needed to know what her partner has been doing to her in the past pero hindi ko parin sinabi. Fast forward sa birthday ko, I decided to invite them kasi they're still part of my circle of friends. We enjoyed the party a little and they even did a short gender reveal with us and doon palang mafefeel mo na parang my friend's partner don't like her anymore. Parang napipilitan nalang yung partner ng friend ko. They were not really sweet with each other and the spark isn't there anymore. Kinabukasan, I saw my friend na parang uneasy and hindi mapakali so nilapitan ko sya and then she told me na naiwan ng partner niya yung phone sa cr and dun nya nakita na parang nagfiflirt na yung partner nya sa iba tas parang nafifeel nya na nagchecheat na sya behind her back. 

I was just sitting in front of her and para na akong sasabog na parang iiyak coz i feel like i was betraying her kasi alam ko na totoo yung hinala niya pero hindi ko pwedeng sabihin. To make the story short, I told her everything. Hindi ko na nakayanan. Sinabi ko sakanya lahat ng nalaman ko and I was shaking internally. I don't know kung tama yung ginawa ko. I know it was wrong timing kasi she's still pregnant but i still dropped the bomb and i told her. nakokonsensya ako. My friend thanked me. She was so grateful that I told her pero i still can't stop thinking about the baby. What if maapektuhan ang bata?? and tama nga ang hinala ko. She started bleeding for a week tapos dinagdag pa yung stress sa kabit ng partner niya at ate ng kabit. they kept triggering her na ma-stress.

fast forward, her cheating boyfriend suddenly messaged me and he was so mad. Sinabihan nya ako ng mga masasamang salita. Bobo daw ako. Ulol. Delusional. Hindi daw ako nagiisip. Tapos siniraan pa nya yung boyfriend. parang kasalanan ko pa na cheater sya. then, he sent me the pics of the baby na namatay na. I was shaking. It's like I'm the one who k*lled the baby. he told me na nakunan yung friend ko. NAKUNAN. that's why he got so mad at me kasi sinabi ko sa friend ko na cheater sya and this is the result of what happened. Now, i feel like the worst again. I don't know what to do. I feel like kasalanan ko talaga lahat. I kept thinking about it. Sana hindi ko nalang sinabi. Sana hinayaan ko nalang kaibigan ko. I blocked all of them sa socmed temporarily coz my mind is still messed up. I don't know what to do.