Hey everyone,

I'm 22 years old and I was seeing a girl that was 19 and we were doing so well. We were making plans for the future and I believed that we were having fun. One day, she suddenly got cold when I was texting her. Later, she told me that she and her ex (her 1st boyfriend) got back together and she wanted it. I was in shock but I accepted and just messaged that I was disappointed and wished her good luck.

She messaged me again a week and a half later and she said that her boyfriend was immature and that she was already regretting getting back together with him and losing me in the process. The way she described her ex was the total opposite of me and her friends stated the same and was also disappointed that she didn't choose me. Then to cut it short, she asked for a second chance and stated that she wanted me back. I was still into her so I said yes, so we were continuing our plans from before and I felt like she's investing more into us but three days ago, she had a problem and I was trying to console her. I messaged her on facebook, instagram, tiktok and even sms but I was left on delivered. I'm an overthinker but I just thought that she probably is having a hard time so I should just leave a message that "I'm here if you need anything, your wound may not heal fast but I'm here to help it heal" and stuff like that.

A couple of days passed and she finally messaged me back yesterday, she told me she was fine and I was relieved but something unexpected happened. She got back together with her ex. A part of me was not surprised because she already did it once but the shock is still there. Her reason was she just couldn't forget abt him because she was his first like she dtated that I was better in every aspect, the only thing I didn't have was being her 1st boyfriend. I just replied with "I hope it works out this time" and said that I had a feeling ever since she came back that I was being infatuated. Anyways, what do y'all think about this??