First of all, I'm a transwoman. So challenge malaman which guy yung open to dating a trans specially most guys that are attracted to trans are not open/telling upfront about it. Also, i feel like mas magwowork if i organically meet guys and eventually they might discover that they can be attracted to a trans like me, specially when they really get to know me.

1. I started dating quiet late when I was around 21 when I also started transitioning - so i had to learn a lot about dating, romantically/sexually interaction with men.

2. I noticed marami naman nagsasabing I'm attractive (sometimes experiences pretty privileges)and i believe may nagkaka crush naman sakin pero usually they don't really push it through to the point na jojowain talaga ko. May guys naman na they wanted to pursue ofcourse but they are not my preference

3. I have a specific type. I really like someone who's conventionally attractive, atleast cute/decent face and FIT. Let's say i like guys from rich families. The typical Big 4 guy who can speak English fluently. Good background and presentable. Problem is, i don't have enough network and interaction with these kind of guys.

4. Most people online like dating apps are not really looking for dates. Lol. I get to meet my type of guys here on Reddit but only for hook ups! (I got tired of trying to look for dates here nowadays that's why i do hook up posts nalang)

5. Parang hindi nag aalign ang destiny, yung mga type kong iba may mga GF na. Mga single naman are the ones na hindi open to date. Idk saan na ko lulugar haha

Anyway, any tips? I understand the dynamics of dating. I take time to get to know someone and I know what I want in a guy... But how do i get to meet more potential guys for dates?

Again, as a trans, there are lesser guys who are attracted and who are brave to be in a relationship with a trans so need to make double/tripple efforts to keep meeting guys to get a chance on meeting a life partner.

Tips?

Thanks :)