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Kabataan nung high school to college, sobrang excited ako sa love. Yung first girlfriend ko, ex na ngayon, doon ko talaga na-realize na parang yung relationship namin naging transactional.
Nung una, sobrang saya. Pero habang tumatagal, parang nagiging “bigay ka, bigay din ako” yung dynamic. Parang may unwritten expectation na dapat may kapalit yung effort, time, or gifts. Hindi ko na-feel yung love na sinasabi nilang unconditional.
Ngayon, iniisip ko—ganito ba talaga ang relationships? Transactional ba dapat? O may deeper connection na kailangan hanapin? Kayo ba, naniniwala pa rin ba kayo sa true love? O parang negotiation na lang talaga lahat?
Thoughts?
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