Hi, I'm 25M and I had a boyfriend once. I ended our relationship 3 months ago.

When we started living in, halos lagi kami nag ssex during our first month. We really loved each other and our relationship that time was so healthy and beautiful. He was my top and I'm his bottom. But everything changed when I started noticing him staying long in the bathroom kapag mag sshower na sya for work.

Sometimes I hear his phone playing porn on loudspeaker. He accidentally disconnected his earbuds from his phone that time kasi lagi nya yun suot pag mag ppoop prior to shower. Kapag tapos na sya, he'll go out of our bathroom to leave his phone in our table since maliligo na sya. I noticed his dick was still hard pero bagsak na, yung parang kakatapos lang mag jerk off. I felt pain during my observation. Nandun naman ako in the first place, bat di nya nalang ako inaya to help him out? Pinag usapan namin yun before and told me na "me time" nya naman daw kasi yun at walang naman nagbago sa paningin nya sakin. It happened several times every morning and there was still pain kahit nag explain na sya sakin.

After a few months, nasanay na ko sa ginagawa nya sa cr. Inaccept ko na lang. This might sound selfish pero sana sakin nya na lang binuhos libog nya. Nandun naman ako eh :(

Never na nasettle yung issue na yon until I ended our relationship. That was not the cause of our breakup pala, different story basta. Naaalala ko lang to kasi what if pumasok ulit ako sa commitment then mangyari ulit ang ganitong scenario? Should I be upset about it or is it really just normal?

How about you guys? What would you feel kapag napansin nyong ganun ginagawa ng boyfriend nyo behind your back? Even in your presence. Lmk your thoughts.