Maybe its a niche desire, less known or misunderstood... kinkier D/s sex with sub-leaning and wet or dry ANR/ABF breastplay but.. When I search for this, all the ANR places commonly feel like 'Mommy kink' or some 'Ageplay' stuff... which was never my experience and not how I view it... to me it's primal sexual within more lustful kinky bedroom fun

I enjoy Breastplay, and enjoyed wet-nursing from lactating women unexpectedly. After that, I've enjoyed few forms of ANR by both lactating & non-lactating women, having been with women into suckling, nursing, all around breast play.. who are submissive/servicing in bed, into rougher sex, D/s dynamics and overall were kinky in bed and we matched well, that combination and range, mix of play, is my ideal in bed... I happened upon it incidentally more than once in the wild, first in my mid 20s, then late 20s, and also very early 30s... it's been a while for that level of 'more than run of the mill Breastplay' what I would denote as either ANR (dry) or ABF (wet) was a part of my sexlife.. it's been way too long

I've had this before, been looking for it again, but rare find. I'm Hedonistic but mostly Daddy-Dom, Primal, a bit Sadist, for me, "ANR" was only done during sex, never on its own

BDSM: I feel it's true to say no one's just one thing whether that's personality or kink identifier roles.. with labels aside, I enjoy both passionate and rougher sex, control with or no restraints, energetic-intense rhythms.. ie. I'm very kinky but as long as vibes sync. I tend to click best with submissive/ servicing in play naturally into power exchange dynamics..

ANR: I want a match who enjoys the intimacy and pleasure from ANR/ABF/breastplay, that she gets from kissing, sex, oral, and sees it as another natural expression of intimacy. I'm not a passive suckler into just sensual nursing.. I'm into more passion filled carnal energetic breastplay, ANR & sex, it's fun in bed and a sexual thing to me.. NOT Mommy kink

Overall: I like a variety in bed, extended foreplay, gropey hot heavier makeouts, both slowed passion filled tempo and a more intense varied energetic spirited sex, tender to rough, multiple orgasms for both from reciprocated repeated oral and sex by playing a few hours each rendezvous throttling through varied emotions of raw hedonistic play which for me means expressed in rougher sex, D/s dynamics.. that's my hedonic state, not as it's used as synonym for sensual