I'm looking to build a real connection and even better if it turns into a relationship. I'm going to be very specific about who I am and who I'm looking for, so please read carefully. I'm looking to start with chatting and slowly build a connection over time, no pressure to be anything other than organic.

I'm in the US - midwest - but am open to any location for the right connection. As long as the expectations are realistic if we're at a distance.

I'm a single 39f, no kids, never married. I've had a long term relationship before, so I'm not an undateable weirdo. I'm tall with a pretty face. I have a formerly athletic but currently thick/chubby body. I've started a much healthier diet recently to deal with some health concerns and I'm feeling great, so I expect to settle back into a healthier body over the next few months.

I'm intelligent, kind, and can be fairly cheeky and playful. I'm a sensitive person who cares about self-reflection and authenticity.

Sexually, I am experienced, open, and comfortable. Please be the same. I have plenty of kinks but am more interested in sensuality and intimacy than aggression. We can talk more about those one on one - we already have one in common so that's why I'm posting here.

As far as ANR stuff goes, I've successfully induced twice before but had no one to share it with so I lost motivation to keep it up. I would be happy to induce again or just share dry nursing.

My match: I'm only looking for men between 35-50. Must be liberal and non-religious. If a relationship is to form, ideally you would have no children or older children. Obviously, you must be single. I shouldn't have to say that, but alas. If you've gone to/are currently in therapy, you get all the bonus points.

I'm a good person who is not interested in toxicity or scams. I'm just looking for another sane, well adjusted person to share intimacy and fun with. Let me know if you're looking for the same! Please send a message of substance, telling me about yourself. "Hey" only or anyone outside of my above specifications will be ignored.