Searching the posts is the key to finding someone on a personals sub.

• Type your LOCATION in the search bar. Use one word, nothing else.

The search will return every post using the location spelled in that way. In a small place it should be easy to sort through all the posts. Sort by new. Did you find your own ad?

• Type a different spelling of your LOCATION, or an abbreviation. Try them all.

You can also refine your search by using two words:

• Type "[LOCATION] and [another search term like F4M, M4F, F4F, F4A]"

There are many variations so use them so you don't miss anyone.

Example of searches spelled out (no more than 2 search terms):

• "San and Francisco" (every post with both words)
• "York or NY" (every post with either words)
• "NY and F4M"
• "Bronx"
• "90210"

Don't use than more 2 search terms, the crappy reddit search can't handle that. Separate them by and/or.

Using partial words wont work (4F won't return M4F).

Use all the common location spellings.

Expand your search by using the region, state, province, country.

When posting an ad, use the standard FTM4A, M4F format instead of "FTM for A", "looking for a F".

Search often and be findable.